Joshua Sikes, an 11-year-old boy with autism from Virginia Beach, died on November 3, 2024, from brain death caused by head trauma, according to a lawsuit filed by his mother, Julie Xirau. The suit alleges that on October 31, 2024, at Pembroke Elementary School, staff from Southeastern Cooperative Educational Programs (SECEP) confined him in a “makeshift classroom prison”—a space enclosed by bookcases, bookshelves, and heavy-duty straps. Joshua reportedly begged for his “mommy,” said “I miss my mommy” and “I’m calm bear,” but while restrained and secluded, he banged his head on the floor. Staff allegedly watched for hours without intervening, then called Xirau claiming only misbehavior, leading her to deny him trick-or-treating as punishment. Joshua’s condition worsened; he died at home after an ER visit where the trauma wasn’t disclosed.
Lawsuit Details
Xirau seeks $150 million from SECEP and four employees, accusing them of negligence, failure to call a nurse, and misleading her about the incident. The complaint claims the confinement agitated Joshua to create a “paper trail” for removal from class, violating his rights and safety protocols for special needs students.
Official Investigations
Virginia Beach Commonwealth’s Attorney Colin Stolle found “absolutely no evidence” implicating SECEP staff, per WHRV reporting. Child Protective Services investigated, attributing neglect to an “unknown abuser” but ruling out physical abuse claims. No charges resulted, highlighting a gap between the lawsuit’s allegations and prosecutorial findings.
Broader Context on School Seclusion
Seclusion and restraint in U.S. schools, especially for students with disabilities, face strict regulations under federal law like the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) and state guidelines. Virginia bans non-emergency seclusion and requires immediate parental notification for injuries, plus documentation. Nationally, the U.S. Dept. of Education reports over 100,000 seclusions/restraints yearly pre-2020, linked to risks like trauma or death—Joshua’s case echoes incidents like the 2012 death of a 13-year-old autistic boy in Texas from similar restraint. Critics argue makeshift enclosures exacerbate behaviors in neurodiverse kids, while defenders cite de-escalation needs. Ongoing lawsuits often settle for policy changes, as in a 2023 Michigan case awarding $14M.
This tragedy underscores tensions in special education between safety and rights. Given your interest in legal regulations, do you want details on Virginia’s specific seclusion laws or similar cases in other states?














